Is Retirement the Life for Me? (Part 2)
April 23, 2022
First of all, thank to all of you who read and commented on my last post via Facebook, Twitter, and the Blog Site. I love the conversation and I appreciate the wisdom even more. This is Post #2 of Evaluating my Quasi-Retired Life using Dan Buettner’s Blue Zones research. As a reminder, the nine Blue […]
Ben Dale / Blue Zones / Dan Buettner / Fear of Retirement / Purpose / retirement
Is Retirement the Life for Me?
April 16, 2022
If you started singing the theme song from Green Acres when you saw that title, you may (1) way too impacted by afternoon tv in the 1970s, and (2) also be considering this question. August 31 was my last official day at work in my job as a school superintendent. For almost eight months, I […]
Animal House / retirement / Sitting is the New Smoking / street musician / Superintendent / top
Hawaii – Go for the Beauty, Stay for the Games
April 7, 2022
Jill and I returned home today from our Hawaiian vacation. I’m a big fan of our 50th state. If I feel far away from reality when I’m 26 miles across the sea on Catalina Island, imagine how distant I feel in Hawaii! Really distant is the answer. Even in quasi-retirement, being home means routines and […]
Cornhole / cribbage / Crud / Dodge Ram 1500 / Golf / Hawaii / Honda Ridgeline / Nothing but net / Ping Pong
Movies I Watch Again and Again
March 31, 2022
We watched the Oscars on Sunday night. With my newfound time, I actually had the opportunity to watch most of the nominated movies this year. I loved CODA, and I was pleasantly surprised to see it win. Don’t Look Up was one of the funniest movies I’ve seen in a while, but I thought that […]
The College Kid Comes Home
March 24, 2022
Alternate Title: Parents and Tasmanian Devils Can Peacefully Coexist Our youngest son, Dawson, came home from college this weekend. It’s Spring Break, and he is in town for 10 days. Jill, Duffy and Maggie Mae (our Scottish Terriers), and I are thrilled to have him home. My good friend Chris Erskine wrote about his son, […]
Chris Erskine / Parenting / Scottish Terriers / Spring Break / Tasmanian Devils
Beware the Ides of March (Minus Two)
March 16, 2022
March 15 is the Ides of March. The phrase ‘Beware the Ides of March’ is yet another Shakespeare quote still in our lives, made famous as a fortune teller’s warning to Julius Caesar about his impending death. I’ve been in a hilarious email exchange this week with about 20 high school classmates, reminiscing about our […]
Birthday / Catholic High School / COVID / COVID-19 / Ides of March / Little Rock Catholic High School / MBUSD / Superintendent
The Pursuit of Well-Being
March 9, 2022
I’m a big fan of pursuing happiness. Aristotle even said that doing so was the meaning of life, so I’m in decent company. I know that there are a million ways to define happiness, and that you don’t have to be smiling-laughing-giddy in order to be happy. That’s why many people are moving from the […]
depression / flourish / happiness / martin seligman / nadine burke harris / quarantine questions / questlove / shashank joshi / suicide / well-being
Thoughts on Ukraine – The World is Changing Right Before Our Eyes
March 3, 2022
I didn’t think I’d see it in my lifetime. Russia has invaded Ukraine, and as of the time of this writing, there is a fierce battle waging for the survival of this new and yet not new nation. I have to admit, I did not know much about Ukraine before last week. I knew it […]
Teaching History / Ukraine
Paying it Forward
February 25, 2022
The best gift any teacher can receive is words of appreciation from their students, from the parents of their students, or from a site administrator. I remember being a principal and walking into the room of one of a truly wonderful teacher. This teacher was loved by his students and by the community. Like most […]
Copy Room Conversations / Gratitude / Mike Matthews / Nicole Lusiani / Paying it Forward / San Lorenzo High School
Lemons, Limes, Love, and Loss
February 17, 2022
We lost our lime tree this month. It was a beautiful and bountiful tree in our front yard that was part of our lives for about 10 years. As a boy from Arkansas, having citrus trees in our yard is still a wonder that I NEVER take for granted. We have lemon trees, a tangerine […]
Giving Tree / Lemons / Limes / Woolsey Fire
Sing It With Me! Don’t Let the Old Man In
February 3, 2022
I was talking to my friend Kevin last week. Kevin and I have ventured through our public education careers with similar jobs as teachers, high school principals, and finally as superintendents. He has been a mentor and a friend for over 30 years, and I truly appreciate our bond and understanding of one another. Kevin […]
aging / cathy applefeld olson / chris crowley / clint eastwood / don't let the old man in / eric charbonneau / in-n-out / perpetual youth / retirement / Risky Business / the mule / toby keith / top / younger next year
Lend Me Your Ear and I’ll Sing You a Song . . .
January 21, 2022
The great thing about Los Angeles is that it has everything you could ever want in terms of culture, sports, food, entertainment, and beauty. The lousy thing about LA is that if you have to go anywhere during rush hour or on the weekend, traffic can be b-r-u-t-a-l. That’s especially true if you live where […]
On New Year’s Resolutions
January 6, 2022
What do I want said about me when I die? That was a question posed to me in Michael Hyatt’s Living Forward book. He encourages readers to write their own eulogy, then live their life so that they live up to those words. “By writing the eulogy as if it’s being delivered today, you may […]
Kenny Chesney / Michal Hyatt / New Years Day / Resolutions / Steven Covey / The Life
Finding Wonder and Beauty in the Solstice Darkness
December 24, 2021
Twenty-three and a half degrees. Actually, is 23.4 degrees, but let’s not get too technical. It’s going to change anyway. That’s the tilt of the earth. Paraphrasing the classic Sam Cooke song, “Don’t know much about astronomy,” but I’ll say it – I am geeked-out-over-the-moon-fascinated by the tilt of the Earth’s axis. Tuesday was the […]
antarctica / axis / earth / geek / solstice / soup / winter
The Search for Blame
December 10, 2021
It has been a week since we learned about the horrific Oxford High School shooting. A good friend of mine is an Oxford alumna, and she is DEVASTATED. It hurts all of us, but for those invested in the community, it rips to the core. As Oakland County Sheriff Michael Bouchard said, “This wound will never […]
Our Favorite Holiday is Here
November 25, 2021
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! The Thanksgiving Tree is up in our home, both of my sons are coming home, and we are ready to celebrate! I hope you are too. First – a bit of gratitude for all of you. I want to thank those of you who read my posts and are actually interested in […]
The Crazy Costs of College, and a Great Weekend at Colorado School of Mines
November 18, 2021
He’s a little taller, and his sense of humor has gotten even better. Of course, that’s coming from me, a dad who feels threatened that both of his sons will be taller than he, and a humorist of whom my friend Merlin says, “Mike, you know not everyone gets your sense of humor.” Disirregardless*, it’s […]
Animal House / Blaster / Clear Creek / College Application / Colorado School of Mines / Cost of College / Faber University / Orediggers
Halloween, Closed Drawers, and Empty Nests
November 2, 2021
Halloween is a big deal in our neighborhood. Our area is one of the few places in Malibu where streets are lined with houses arranged on traditional blocks, on a semi-traditional street grid. Malibu is dotted with large houses and properties spaced far apart, many of which are second homes that are dark at Halloween, […]
Costco / Empty Nest / Halloween / Halloween Tree / Malibu / Marie Kondo / principalchef.com
Critical Race Theory – A Superintendent and History Teacher’s Perspective
October 19, 2021
Critical Race Theory. It’s something I had never heard of until September of last year. And then, I began getting very angry emails and people started coming to board meetings to demand that we stop teaching it. The questions were very much like ones featured in the first-ever school board meeting parody on Saturday Night […]
critical race theory / MBUSD / SNL / Superintendent / top
An Ode to Masters Swimming and the Science of Improvement
October 9, 2021
I remember my first day of swim practice, way back when I was six years old. It was at the Little Rock Boys’ Club and Coach Brooks led the workouts. It was my first experience in a locker room, where I quickly learned that even though I was small enough to do it, you don’t […]
anders ericsson / begg pool / bonnie adair / Catholic High School / clay evans / freakonomics / LMU / masters swimmng / nancy reno / steve hyde
Eggplant, Biscuits, and Ted Lasso
September 20, 2021
We have lived in our neighborhood for almost 30 years now. There are so many great parts of living here – the weather is spectacular, the beach is a ten-minute walk from our home (we can’t see it, but we can hear the waves in the morning), and we are right up against the beautiful […]
Binge Watching / Biscuits with the Boss / Eggplant Parmesan / Leadership / principalchef / Ted Lasso
Remembrances of 9/11/2001
September 11, 2021
I love driving by the stunningly beautiful Pepperdine University campus, located on Pacific Coast Highway overlooking the Malibu coast, especially in early fall. Just 10 miles from my home, I passed it on my commute twice a day, every day, for about 17 years. The university’s close proximity was a key factor in the decision […]
9-11 / American Flag / Malibu High School / Manhattan Beach / Pat Matthews / Pepperdine
Leaving a Place Better Than You Found It
August 29, 2021
Pop-tops. Some call them pull tabs. What a lousy invention. But they were everywhere when I was growing up. Today, when you open a soda or beer can, you use a Sta-tab, which is what you find on nearly every can in the world these days. Daniel F. Cudzik was the engineer working at Reynolds […]
Cudzick / Lake Ouachita / litterbug / MBUSD / Pop-top / principal / Sta-Tab
Taking My Youngest to College
August 18, 2021
That was it. Dawson gave each of us a long and hard hug, picked up the last bit of dorm room essentials from our double Target run, turned around, and walked off to his dorm in the Colorado School of Mines. Oredigger Camp – his three-day orientation – starts tomorrow. He is fired up and […]
College Freshmen / Colorado School of Mines / Empty Nest / Malibu High School